Penwell Turner Funeral Home - Shelby, Ohio

Marilyn J. (Fireoved) Grauer

Marilyn J. (Fireoved) Grauer, 81, of Shelby and most recently of Leawood, Kansas died Tuesday, November 3, 2009 at Sunrise Assisted Living in Leawood.

Marilyn was born October 23, 1928 in Shelby the daughter of the late Landis R. and Marie C. (Brock) Fireoved. She graduated in 1946 from Shelby High School. Following graduation, she was employed at the Ohio Seamless Tube Company. In 1949 she married Fred Grauer and worked along side him in the trucking and farming business for many years.
Marilyn was an active member of the First Lutheran Church, Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, MOM Mothers League, Shelby Hospital Guild – where she had been president, and was a founding member of the Shelby Country Club. She had been the secretary of the Richland County American Cancer Society and treasurer of the Shelby Democratic Club. Marilyn was an avid Shelby Whippet and loved attending all Shelby sporting events. She also enjoyed watching Ohio State Football. Marilyn took great pleasure in visiting with her family, having a cup of coffee with long time friends, or playing golf and bridge.

She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law: Jeanne and Andy Alingh of Leawood, KS; 2 grandsons: Drew Alingh and Ben Alingh both of Leawood, KS; a sister and her husband: Lou Ellen and Darwin Sampsel of Shelby; 2 sisters-in-law: Catherine Spangler and Betty Loveland both of Shelby; a brother-in-law: Albert Grauer of Bath, OH; numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Fred Grauer in 1987, 2 brothers, John Fireoved and Robert Fireoved and his wife Molly Fireoved.

Friends may call on Friday from 2-4 and 6-8 PM at the Turner Funeral Home, 168 West Main Street, Shelby. Funeral services will be held on Saturday at 10:30 AM at First Lutheran Church with Rev. Steven C. Bond officiating. Burial will be in Oakland Cemetery in Shelby. Memorial expressions may be made to First Lutheran Church. On-line condolences may be made at
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The family wishes to express special thanks to Sunrise Assisted Living Center and Continua Hospice for their loving care and support.

Memories & Condolence

  1. Guest says:

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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Tom Adams

    Date: 09-11-04

    Condolence:

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Marilyn was a grand lady whom I respected and admired dearly. She will me missed.
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    Family_of: Marilyn Graur
    Your_Name: Jackie Felter

    Date: 09-11-05

    Condolence:

    So sorry to hear about Marilyn. I always enjoyed talking to her whenever I saw her. Such a nice person. She will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jackie Polachek Felter
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    Family_of: MARILYN GRAUER
    Your_Name: MARY KATHRYN STRAUB

    Date: 09-11-05

    Condolence:

    Please accept my deepest sympathies
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Jeffery Potts

    Date: 09-11-06

    Condolence:

    Mrs. Grauer will always be remembered by me for her positive attitude and friendly atmosphere. My friend and former employer/teacher, Bob Mazzotta, introduced me to her and always spoke highly of her. I looked forward to going to her residence to talk with her and to trim that privet hedge (my first one) and other trimming Bob and I performed. Bob has been passed since 1997 and I regret that I did not make it to see and speak with her recently. I travel by the house often and everything is centimental to me. She knew I first started my little league years with Grauers Trucking. Her inspiration will always be present.
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Greg Keck

    Date: 09-11-06

    Condolence:

    Jeanne,

    It was good seeing you and your family today. Your mom meant a lot to James, Brian, and me. I’m so glad that we were able to share time with her. She really enjoyed the lakehouse, and I’m glad that she was able to spend time there. I know my mom has missed her as they always had someplace to go-on a minute’s notice. They had fun, and I enjoyed spending time with your them. James felt bad that he could not come to calling hours nor the funeral. Brian sends regards from Las Vegas, where he is living now. Take care and know that we all felt close to your mom.

    Greg
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Judy (ter Braak) Montes

    Date: 09-11-09

    Condolence:

    Jeanne, Andy and family,
    Mom let me know about your Mom’s passing. I am sending you my heartfelt condolences and want you to know I always seemed to run into her whenever I was in Shelby, and it was always so nice to talk with her and get the latest on all of you.I will always have the memories of us as little girls and coming to your house to swim or play. I will miss seeing her in Shelby. Peace be with you all in the days ahead.
    Love,
    Judy
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Jan Catherwood

    Date: 09-11-10

    Condolence:

    So very sorry to read of Marilyn’s death. She was a good friend, practically neighbor and fellow bridge club member for many years. We have shared many fun times. My sincere condolences. Jan
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Stephanie (Laws) Moore

    Date: 09-11-10

    Condolence:

    Dear Jeanne and Family, My deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your mother. I had great respect for her and your Dad, they where good people. I will miss seeing her at church when I visit Shelby. God be with you and know that my prayers are with you. Steph
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    Family_of:
    Your_Name: Julie Dowds Thompson

    Date: 09-11-10

    Condolence:

    Jeanne,

    I am sorry to hear the news of your mother’s passing. My thoughts are with your and your family.

    Julie
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    Family_of: Marilyn
    Your_Name: Tim Lord

    Date: 09-11-12

    Condolence:

    sorry to hear about your mother. your in our thoughts and prayers. god bless you and your family
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    Family_of: Marilyn Grauer
    Your_Name: Jennifer (Friebel) Bowman

    Date: 09-11-12

    Condolence:

    Jeanne and family;

    My heart was sadened when I learned about the loss of your mother. I remember waiting on her when I was at the bank. She was a very lovely woman and I know that she will be missed by many.

    God bless you,
    Jennifer

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